• Smarter midlife dating starts here

    Increase your odds of finding your person

    by learning 4 simple techniques to:

    • Get crystal-clear on who you truly want

    • Stop settling for less than you deserve

  • Why Does Dating in Midlife

    Feel So Frustrating?

    You’ve tried the apps – but they’re full of ghosting, game-playing and endless small talk.

    You’ve met people who seem promising…until you realize they’re “almost right” but not truly right.

    You’ve given second (and third) chances when you knew it wasn’t going anywhere.

    You’re tired of pouring energy into mismatches and you just want to find your person.

    It’s not you. The odds really are stacked against midlife daters.

    But with a proven method, you can shift the odds in your favor.

  • What If You Could Increase

    Your Odds Of Finding

    Your “Forever” Person?

    The F-Yeah! MethodTM doesn’t promise instant sparks or fairy tale romance. What it does promise is better odds: a practical, field-tested, smarter approach to dating that increases your probability of finding your forever person.

    Inside, you’ll learn how to:

    1. Get clear on what you truly need – and stop compromising.

    2. Date at a pace that makes success more likely.

    3. Filter quickly so you don’t waste months (or years) on mismatches.

    4. Recognize the signs when someone is actually right for you.

    Love isn’t luck. It’s clarity + consistency + probability. And this guide helps you get all three.

  • From the Trenches of

    Midlife Dating – and the Boardroom

    I’m Ian Chamandy. In my professional life, I created the Blueprint Method – a system that’s helped hundreds of CEOs and leadership teams define their corporate brands (www.7words.biz).

    I also adapted the Blueprint Method to individuals. Now, anyone can take my AI powered course to define their purpose – in 7 words or less – and learn how to live a life of meaning and purpose (www.purposeu.ai).

    In my own life, I’ve been through the ups and downs of dating in middle age.

    I sat across from people at coffee shops and have known within minutes we weren't going anywhere.

    I’ve let myself get swept up in excitement – chemistry! infatuation! – even when something inside told me it wasn’t right.

    I’ve had amazing conversations where I thought, “this could be it,” only to be ghosted the next day.

    I’ve felt the thrill of meeting someone I was sure was perfect for me – and the pain of realizing they didn’t feel the same.

    And I’ve had relationships with truly wonderful people, even if they weren’t my forever person.

    If any of this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. So many of us have been through these same moments — the awkward, the hopeful, the heartbreaking

    And it’s exactly why I created the F-Yeah! Method™ – a disciplined, practical process designed for people who are tired of settling, tired of wasting time and who are ready for the forever relationship they desire.

  • The 4 Components Of The

    F-Yeah! MethodTM That Stack

    The Odds In Your Favor

    1. Know Your Target – Define your negotiables and non-negotiables clearly so you stop giving energy to the wrong people.

    2. It’s a Numbers Game – Learn how to date consistently (without burnout) so you give yourself a better chance.

    3. Be Ruthless in Evaluation – End “almost” relationships early – kindly and confidently.

    4. Know When It’s Right – Recognize the signs of a truly compatible partner, step by step.

    When you work all four components at the same time, your odds of finding your forever person go way up.

  • What You’ll Get Inside The F-Yeah! Guide

    10 Core Chapters + 9 Exclusive Bonuses = Smarter Dating

    You’re not just buying a Guide to midlife dating – you’re getting a
    complete dating methodology that stacks proven strategies with practical tools.

    The Core Method

    1. Why It’s Called The F#ck Yeah! MethodTM – The bold, no-nonsense philosophy that changes how you approach dating forever.

    2. The Reality of Midlife Dating – Navigate the unique challenges and hidden opportunities in your 40s, 50s, and beyond.

    3. What Kind of Relationship Do You Want? – Get clear on your forever-person goal so you never waste time again.

    4. How Relationships Grow (and the Drop-Off Graph) – Understand the stages of connection and avoid the “false spark” trap.

    The Four Components of the Method – Your step-by-step framework:

    1. Know Your Target – Define exactly who you’re looking for.

    2. It’s a Numbers Game – Learn how to maximize opportunities without burning out.

    3. Be Ruthless in Evaluation – Stop second-guessing and make confident choices.

    4. Invest Only in ‘F-Yeah!’ Relationships – Commit only when it’s absolutely right.

    The value of the F-Yeah! MethodTM

    Clarity + Confidence in every dating decision

    The Bonus Bundle

    These extras make dating easier, less stressful – and smarter:

    1. The Coffee Date Toolkit – 20 brilliant conversation starters for low-stakes first dates.

    2. The First 10 Dates Roadmap – A practical guide from first hello to lasting commitment.

    3. The 36 Questions to Fall in Love – A variation on the world-famous intimacy builder backed by psychology.

    4. The Drop-Off Graph Worksheet – Spot patterns where relationships fizzle and fix them fast.

    5. The Self-Care Guide After Tough Dates – Bounce back stronger after disappointments.

    6. Target Clarity Worksheet – Define your must-haves and dealbreakers so you date with purpose.

    7. Numbers Game Tracker – Stay motivated and organized while creating more quality opportunities.

    8. Evaluation Checklist – Quickly assess whether someone is a “maybe” or an “F-Yeah.”

    9. Relationship Growth Journal – Capture insights from each date and watch patterns emerge

    Table Of Contents

    Introduction: Who I Am & Why I Wrote This Guide

    Chapter 1: Why It’s Called the F#ck Yeah! MethodTM

    Chapter 2: The Reality of Middle-Age Dating

    Chapter 3: What Kind of Relationship Do You Want?

    Chapter 4: How Relationships Grow and the Drop-Off Graph

    Chapter 5: The Four Pillars of the F-Yeah! MethodTM

    Chapter 6: Pillar 1 – Know Your Target

    Chapter 7: Pillar 2 – It’s a Numbers Game

    Chapter 8: Pillar 3 – Be Ruthless in Evaluation

    Chapter 9: Pillar 4 – Knowing When Someone Is “Right”

    Chapter 10: Final Thoughts

    Appendix A

    The F-Yeah! Quick Reference Guide

    Appendix B

    Self-Care After Difficult Dates

    Appendix C

    36 Questions That Accelerate Intimacy

    Appendix D

    Coffee Date Conversation Toolkit

  • It’s About Being Prepared

    F-Yeah! dating isn’t about chasing perfection or endless “what-ifs.” It’s about clarity, discipline and probability.

    The F-Yeah! MethodTM helps you:

    • Stay grounded when emotions (and "chemistry") try to cloud your judgment.

    • Stop wasting months — or years — on mismatches.

    • Trust that every “no” brings you closer to your F-Yeah! “yes.”

    The goal isn’t to be flawless. The goal is to be prepared — so when the right person comes along, you’ll know it, and you won’t let them slip away.

  • F-Yeah! is a Faster Path

    Off the Dreaded Dating Apps!

    If you are like me, you’ve worked too hard, lived too much, and waited too long to settle for anything less than your forever person.

    With The F-Yeah! MethodTM, you’ll date smarter, filter faster, and increase your odds of finding – and keeping – the relationship you deserve.

    Have you had enough of hoping your person will come along? If you make your search more intentional with the F-Yeah! Method, you will greatly increase the probability of finding your F-Yeah! person.

    The retail price of the "The F#ck Yeah! Method: A Practical Guide to Dating Smarter in Middle Age" is $19.99 but you can get it now for the introductory price of $14.99.

    Click the button below now for a faster path off the dating apps.

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